What do you think is the most difficult word in the English language? Would it be “lachrymose” (causing tears, tearful) or “contumacious” (insubordinate, rebellious) because we use them so rarely? Would it be “hemacytometer” (instrument for counting blood) or “Boanerges” (skilled orator) because they are tricky to spell? 
    I think that, if forced to choose, I’d take a different route, suggesting that the most difficult word in the English language is also one of the shortest, easiest to spell, and most common: “no.”
    We struggle with the “no”.  As toddlers being taught the no to electrical outlets, knobs on stove, running to far ahead of parents in public, or the cleaning chemicals.  As adolescents the “no” to drugs, foolhardy escapades, or playing video games 36 hours straight.  Adults learn “no” partying late before an exam, being reckless with a car, allowing the overdraft fees pile up in our checking account.
    What is the purposes of these “no’s”?  Basic survival!  By disregarding the no’s, by disregarding the nature of the world we live in, our happiness if not survival is at risk.
          In this week’s text, Romans 6:12-23, the Apostle Paul talks to us about “no.”  The “no” that is the difference between life and death, prospering and futility, righteousness and unrighteousness.  The purpose of “no” is not to keep us from enjoying life, but it is to bring us to the “yes” to God, freedom as children of God, and a life that brings joy to ourselves and others.

Pastor Greg